A life with the sea
When we moved from Thailand (where it all began with our alternative clothing) to Aljezur in Portugal’s western Algarve, we consciously chose a life BY the sea. But we soon realized that it would become much more—a life WITH the sea.
The Atlantic, majestic yet terrifying, lies just a few kilometers from our front door. When we stand on the beach and look west, we know that America lies beyond the horizon. Behind us is all of Europe with its hustle and bustle, vibrant cities, mountains, and crowds. In front of us, however, stretches the endless expanse of the Atlantic, a vision of freedom and immeasurable power.
On some days, the fog hangs so thickly along the steep coast that it feels as though we are standing in the clouds. Every breath is filled with salty sea air that penetrates deep within us and connects us with nature. It is a connection we could never have imagined before. The storms raging far out at sea shape our microclimate, bringing swells that create impressive, sometimes even threatening waves, depending on the sandbank and cove. Yet there are also days when the waves shimmer like liquid silver, simply waiting for us to surf them.
The tides dictate our daily lives. Depending on the tide, swell, and ever-changing sandbanks, there is hardly anything more beautiful than starting the day at half past five in the morning with a few waves. At low tide, the wide beaches invite us to take long walks with our family and dog. Whether a fresh breeze is blowing or the cold northern wind whistles around our ears—the sea determines our daily routine.
I would once have smiled if someone had told me that walking barefoot and grounding could be healing. But today I know better. Connecting with the earth, especially through highly conductive salt water, has a healing effect. The feeling of emerging from the water after a dive and feeling reborn is indescribable. I owe this renewal not only to the water, but also to the fresh, salty sea air, which is rich in minerals and clears the airways.
For our family, the sea has become a source of healing. When things get hectic at home and everyone is upset, all it takes is a quick trip to the sea. Take off our shoes, breathe deeply of the sea air, and watch the sunlight sparkle on the water—and the stress simply fades away. You realize how small and insignificant our everyday problems are when you remind yourself where our place is in this world.
When I leave this place, it feels as though I am leaving behind my home, my natural habitat. Even though the Atlantic often seems terrifying and merciless, it has become a refuge for me, deeply connected to who I am in a way I could never have imagined.
When we still lived in Thailand, I wrote down a goal: a house by the sea. Today, although we do not live directly by the water, we have found something far more valuable—a life WITH the sea, deeply rooted and forever connected.
You can get a small impression of the beauty of the coast here.
No matter where your refuge is—the place that gives you strength and joy in life—follow your instinct. Do not give up until you have arrived.
